So you are planning a wedding and you have hit that wall. If you have ever planned a wedding you know exactly what I am talking about. The wedding planning wall. As a bride you have been making all these little decisions and a few BIG decisions and you are now about half way or just past and you are looking around: scared.
There is so much to do you don’t know where to start, what you need to do next, what you might have forgotten and you have no idea what needs to be dictated out at this point.
You have hit the wedding planning wall and you are starting to panic. This is how I am feeling right now.
I don’t know my dress from my seating plan at this point and I have no idea what I need to do next or focus on most right now.
Panic. Lots of panic.
It doesn’t help that my “hubby” hasn’t done what he needs to do at this point – he is getting there but it is like pulling teeth to get the help which is draining on its own. Having to dictate and make all these very tedious decisions is hard I get it but I need the help in the take charge type way – less “please tell me what to do” way.
It is exhausting, weddings can be exhausting. This is why I am so thankful to have people like my planner Raj at Pink Chai Living helping me out and keeping me sane and on track with everything I need to be doing and vice versa. Without her grounding me and others around me keeping me calm I would have lost my mind already. I can completely understand why this puts so much stress on the woman and the couple – it better be one hell of a night after all this!